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by Marieann Machida | February 14, 2003

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Good evening and thank you for inviting me to participate in tonight’s discussion. I am delighted to be here.

Four years ago, I left my 6-figure salary, my office with a view, and my prospects for partnership behind in order to embrace a new life that is focused on my family.

But even though I gave up all of those things, I can tell you that I am living the most satisfying life that I could ever have imagined.

How does that work? How can a woman possibly be satisfied with her life if she’s not juggling 14 hour days handling Fortune 500 clients with dirty diapers, doctors visits and school schedules?

Well, I think it’s because I don’t ask myself simply whether I have it all. I ask “what does it mean to live a good life?”

“What’s the difference?”

Well, that’s what I’m going to explain.

Americans spend a lot of time trying to figure out what it means to have it all. What is the proper balance between work and family? Is the Ford Expedition big enough, or do I really need the Suburban? We think that having it all is the hallmark of a successful person.

But what does it mean to say that a successful person is one who has it all? What is says to me is that we are really confused about what it means to be a person - successful or otherwise.

We are confused for a couple of simple reasons:

First, because we have pushed the concept of freedom to its outermost limits, we have reduced freedom to being able to do or have whatever we want whenever we want it. We see freedom as the absence of restraints other than those we choose to accept. Thus, since we are meant to be free, we are meant to have whatever we want whenever we want it.

Second, as a people, we are extremely affluent. Most of us in this room believe that — over time — there is very little that we won’t be able to afford, whether we actually need it or not. As a result, we are very distracted by the quest for things, and we typically view any form of deprivation as a resource problem - not a problem that pertains to our very humanity.

When we live this way, the quality of our lives is determined by our happiness. If we are happy, then our lives are meaningful. If not, then it’s time for a change.

In our search for happiness, we make lists of the things we think we need. We need food, clothing, shelter, but not just any food, clothing and shelter. We don’t want just PLAIN pizza, we want TOPPINGS! We also need love, understanding, respect, and fun. The list goes on and on.

One difficulty with this approach to life is that the biggest question we ever wind up asking ourselves is — “how do I keep it all going.” We don’t ask whether this is the right way to live?

Another difficulty in living this way is that you can’t account for things that don’t go your way. When you don’t get the right job, get the next promotion, find the man of your dreams and live happily ever after, you are stuck with the bitter realization that for all of your planning, managing, and running around, you still don’t have it all.

And here’s the real kicker — even if you do accomplish all the things you set out to accomplish, or get all the things you set out to have, there is a really good chance that you will discover that you are still missing something.

As I prepared for this roundtable, I took stock of the last 4 years of my life having left my career behind. I asked myself the usual questions – Do I have what I think I should have? What am I missing? Am I happy?

I was shocked to discover that - even though I no longer have a career, and my husband and I don’t have it all — I am more satisfied with my life than I could ever have imagined and I wouldn’t change a thing.

Wow. How can that be?

Well, the best way I can think of to express it is that my struggles, and the struggles I share with my husband, have tremendous meaning because we are building something that is bigger than we are. We are creating something that is absolutely critical for the welfare of people other than us - individually and as a couple. And, in building this, we see that, at any given time, our wants and desires tell only part of the story - and usually not even the most important.

We really do regularly have to give up what we want for ourselves in order to have something better for our family. I’ve given up my career for the benefit of our family, but my career, while it was good, was not as good as my family is. Ado gives up his entire salary, week after week, for the benefit of our family. He could have remained single, or insisted that we hire a nanny or limit the number of children we had. Other men do that. But, this is better.

Neither one of us has held anything back - and because we are doing this together, we can experience genuine satisfaction, confidence, and joy in the worthiness of our sacrifices.

But how do you live a good life?

For thousands of years, philosophers have tried to answer this question for us. Our generation has embraced a very materialistic approach to living a good life - a good life is one where you have what you want and are free to enjoy it in the way that you choose.

This vision of a good life is fundamentally unsatisfying, however, for anyone who is really honest. A good life is about more than what we have or what we do - it is about how we live.

A GOOD LIFE IS A LIFE LIVED IN THE ACTIVE PURSUIT OF HUMAN EXCELLENCE.

We — as a people — are really challenged in the human excellence department. Why? Because we think of ourselves as pretty nice people, and because we work pretty hard, we believe that we already have achieved human excellence, and we’re satisfied. Since we are lacking a more authentic vision of human excellence, we don’t even see that we actually embrace mediocrity and call it excellence.

According to Aristotle, you cannot live a good life without virtue, because the foundation of human excellence is virtue.

Unfortunately for us, though, since we take a subjective approach to defining virtue, we are easily confused when we are presented with a variety of goods to pursue.

We have difficulty properly ordering our lives because we simply don’t know what should come first. How important are my interests, my needs and my desires relative to the interests, needs and desires of others? What is the standard by which I can judge?

A subjective approach to virtue is fundamentally wrong because virtue and goodness are objective realities that cannot be limited by our vision of them.

GOODNESS DEFINES US; WE DO NOT DEFINE GOODNESS.

There are some things that are absolutely better than others, even if both are good. It is absolutely better for a woman to raise her own children than it is for a nanny or daycare provider to do so. This may require a woman to give up something that she holds dear. But that is the price of living a good life. The question is not really what choice a woman should make, but rather, is she willing to make it?

With respect to this evening’s questions, I am going to suggest something radical.

STOP WORRYING ABOUT TRYING TO HAVE IT ALL. FOCUS INSTEAD ON DOING WHAT IS RIGHT.

Ladies, I suggest that the proper goal for your life is living a good life - not having it all. This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t push yourself to your limits - reach for high places, or expect great things. Just the opposite. What this means is that you should always keep human excellence as your target — you cannot aim any higher than that.

You may have to give something up, or live with something you’d rather be rid of. But therein lies the rub - learning to sacrifice that which you want in order to achieve something that is authentically good is the ultimate challenge of human excellence.

It seems to me that the biggest obstacle to human excellence that women face today is a self-serving dishonesty that prevents them from seeing things the way they really are. We tell ourselves all kinds of pretty lies that make us feel better about ourselves and our decisions.

We are commemorating today the 30^th anniversary of one of the ugliest lies ever told - the lie that an unborn child is not a person with an inalienable right to life. In the United States alone, approximately 40 million women have embraced this lie. They have treated having an abortion like having an abscessed tooth pulled - they have told themselves that the child is not a child at all, but rather a little blob of unhealthy cells that needs to be removed.

The damage that the lie does only begins with the abortion itself, though. Years later, when the woman, for whatever reason, is forced to confront the lie, she discovers the true cost for her dishonesty.

The child she aborted really was a child - maybe it was the only child she would ever be able to conceive. And now, rather than suffering through an unwanted pregnancy, she has to live with the knowledge that she killed her unborn child. In the end, the lie that this woman told herself does not set her free - it enslaves her to unending regret, sadness, and anger.

The demands of your dignity and of the dignity of the people in your life cannot be shoved aside just because you think that they ask too much of you. Your happiness is important, but it cannot be purchased at the expense of the truth. You cannot be a person of excellence, truly free, truly good or truly happy unless you live in accordance with the truth.

For the men here tonight, I issue a different challenge. Step up and assume the responsibilities that are properly yours . You are called by nature above all things to be men of good character, men of excellence. Be those men.

With respect to women, behave now to the women in your life as you would want your daughter’s prospective husbands to behave - keep their best interests at heart, regardless of the cost to you.

When you marry, marry a woman who is your equal - someone who will challenge you in all the right ways. Provide for her the love and support that she needs in order to grow as a woman- really. Take account of her gifts, and talents, and encourage her. But help her to overcome her shortcomings too.

If the challenge of human excellence seems daunting, do not be afraid. Our lives are meant to be difficult. We are meant to struggle. We are meant to climb high mountains, to right grievous wrongs, and to love people that we don’t even like. It is in doing these things that we embrace excellence and live a good life. And, it is in living this way that we embrace the full potential and dignity of our humanity and empower ourselves to endure any form of deprivation.

This is the only place to start in determining whether it is possible to have it all. And I sincerely believe that when you look your duty in the face, you will find that it is a friend, as I did.

Thank you.

152 Comments - add your own

Jack Ritchie — January 1, 2004 at 4:44 pm

Excellent and I agree with you. A couple of things were not elaborated on though. In our capitalistic society, money talks and bs walks. Those that are greed driven always exploit ways to increase their own monetary wealth and at the same time fit into the category of wolves posing as sheep.

Though discrimination is supposedly not tolerated in our society, it exists both openly and secretly. A common person however intelligent/capable has great difficulty moving up corporate ladders and usually fails in this area. The reason is that the top levels are like a click and if not part of the club you’re not admitted.

Also, in the case of women, it is cheap managerial labor. They don’t call it discriminatory but clerical/administrative positions. It is the clerks, clerical, and administrative really, in medium to large corporations that make everything for the corporation possible. Yet, even the common laborers in the company are held in higher esteem and paid better….? By the way, they wouldn’t get paid if not for those in the aforemention areas being there.

Through social engineering, corporate and governmental America dictate and control the masses, telling them what they can do and when they can do it. Even getting down to personal habits (such as smoking, grooming, behavior, etc.), under the guise that is the best for all. It all amounts to control by the elitist elements of our society. The only part of our lives that remain though not completely out of their control, is our own personal homes…but even that is faultering. If your think not, look at how many smokers are out in the cold, even when off work.

Once again, in relation to discrimination against women it has created a paradox. To live a comfortable life, one without great sacrifice, it takes two incomes. What I consider great sacarifice is one without the ability to go out and socialize, to have good meals on the table, and not be conscious of the negative effects/consequences of every penny you spend. The dollar amount of income is not what puts us in the category of poverty, its the expense of living.

I leave with a question. Is the corporate executive concerned with whether you have good meals on your table, a decent place to live. Or is he only concerned with what you can do to help increase his wealth? (That way he can give to parasitic charities/churches, his family live a lavish life, and he look good to all outsiders, at the expense of those employed under him/them). As I stated before, “wolves in sheeps clothing”, and much of it at the expense of women.

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